Love, Creativity, and Valentine

Love is irresistible desire to be irresistible desired. True love cannot be found if it does not truly exist nor can it be hidden if it truly does. However, we need to express our love. We need to express it in creative way. When female power meets male power, third power occurs -- that is power of creation. Love can raise creativity. Love is a treasure of the quest of your heart and life.

Every day is supposed to be the day to celebrate love. However, human beings need one day to remind them, for example: Valentine's day.



Many couples celebrate Valentine's Day annually to celebrate love. The day is named after a Christian martyrs named Saint Valentine. It's held on February 14.

Celebration in relationship is important. Celebration can rejuvenate and refresh the relationship.
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Love raise creativity and relationship needs creativity. Be funny! Sometimes, you need to tell a story or a joke to make your partner laugh. They look sexy when they laugh.

Open up your heart! Open up your mind! Welcome Love!

Accept Yourself and Explore Power of Uniqueness

Metamorphosis is the change of shape in animal's life cycle.



Human being does not experience metamorphosis but he changes in his life cycle. All hopes that in their life cycle they become better. In life cycle, someone needs to accept his uniqueness and develop himself to be better without changing himself to be others.

You cannot be the other. If you can, you cannot find your hidden treasure and explore the best of you.

It is essential to accept yourself, develop your uniqueness, realize the power of uniqueness and be your best self.

I have a fable story about it. Read Frog's Story: Jump! Jump!

Change! Change! Change!

Wake Up! It's time to change!

Why? Because many things change so you need adaptation.
You do need to be someone else. You do not need to change the essence of you. Just be your better self, like from caterpillar to butterfly. Learn! Learn! and Learn!

Be creative and Jump out of the box.

Be grateful! Give thanks to God! Gratitude is the way to respect your life and you to get better life. Ssst, gratitude is also powerful formula.

Dont worry if something ends! because the End will become beauty.

Find the Great Motivator in you.

Never let your past life become your obstacle, manage your mind to overcome it.

Set your goal.


Make good affirmation for success.

God bless you. So be it!

Relationship: Is it about High Quality or Just Compatibility?

Some of us has no confident in relationship because they only see their weak point, have many experience of mockery or rejection, or compare themselves with others. Perhaps, our system teach us as if the one who deserved relationship was the one who had quality, and start to think that we do not have relationship because of low quality (financially, intellectually, physically).

This assumption makes us try harder to improve quality to seek approval to get nice relationship. The problem is that we sacrifice ourselves and we do not become ourselves. There is tendency to act poker face and sacrifice in order to be nice person.
If you love to do it, just do it. But the problem is that many nice guys forced themselves. They do not become themselves and seek approval. While it's the time to wide opportunity to have relationship with those who accept as they are, they become needy to the women who reject them.

This problem is called nice guy syndrome. You can google the information about Nice Guy Syndrome.

You deserve to love or to be loved as the way you are. You need self development but you do not need to kill your character.

See! Many non-handsome people and fat man also have harmony relationship. You do not need to be six-packed man to get love. if you want to have six-packed stomach, do it just for you and for your health. Do not do it to seek approval from others. You do not need to be rich man to love or to be loved by women. However, you need to improve your financial life but don't do it to get love. Don't curse yourself if you are not rich nor handsome.

You can learn to develop you character in relationship. But sometimes, relationship is not about quality. It is a gift through compatibility.

Learn and Learn. Be your best self!

Read also:
- A Deaf Cat Story: Someone Will Accept You as You Are
- A Blade Looking for Sheath: it's not about quality. It's about compatibility.

Inspirational Fable Flash Fictions 2 and Invitation to Write

Not only about money, I love to write fable flash fiction because I love to share. I love to share knowledge, my feeling, my thought, and inspiration. I choose flash fiction because I can express in very short story to illustrate the message. People may have different perspectives about a story. There are modest, funny, inspirational, and motivational things in fable.


It is the picture of puppet show of inspirational Javanese Kancil story by Mangun-Dharma.com

If you love to write fable story or other types of writing, you can write, share, and earn from royalty in Triond

List of fable short stories:

- Blade Looking for Girlfriend: Keris' Fable Story

- Lion and The Jungle: Story of Organization and Its Members

- Young Paddies Lear to Grow

- A Wok and The Roosters

- Lost Sheep and Good Shepherd: I am lost too but don't worry

- Buterfly Story: Is It Right to be Yourself?

- Lowly Donkey and the King of Peace

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Dating Movies: Tips and Luck

Have you ever seen Hitch, How to Lose Guy in 10 Days, and Ugly Truth? There are relationships and dating tips in these movies. However, unpredictable love also becomes the them of these movies.

Read Dating Techniques vs Unpredictability of Love

NO PAIN NO GAIN BUT IT'S LAZZY TIME TO READ HUMOR

NO PAIN NO GAIN! The bodybuilding community adopted the phrase.

According to Wikipedia, No pain, no gain (or "No gain without pain") is an exercise motto that came into prominence after 1982 when actress Jane Fonda began to produce a series of aerobics workout videos.

Is LAZY FOR SUCCESS relevant to NO PAIN NO GAIN Belief?

Now, I do not want to discuss about it. I just want to share humor quotes by various kinds of people about PAIN and GAIN.

READ CREDO OF "PAIN" AND "GAIN" BY VARIOUS PEOPLE.

Hell Poem: Writing Poem to Manage Your Anger

No matter how positive you think, sometimes, we face hell moment (difficult time, or obstacle). Sometimes, you feel anger within. It is difficult to be eliminated.

Anger must be managed. Writing can be a therapy to manage anger or dissappointment.

Anger can be directed to creative things. Don't be destructive.

-When you think like hell, feel like hell, and has a moment like hell, you can write a poem to express.

You need to throw the negative energy of anger by expressing it. Some authors express it in short stories, poems, and novels.

In therapy, patients write something and the experts try to understand what the patients feel by reading their pieces.

My friend express his feeling in the following poems:

- Burn Friend


- Despairing Heart


- Deserted Pride



However, people in hell moment can express their doubt positively/ honestly in creative writing.

Read Haiku of Serenity in Doubt

FABLE FLASH FICTION: Lost Sheep and Good Shepherd | Authspot

Have you read LEGION the Movie 2010? The Archangel Michael in the movie said, ¨ Some people, who realize that being lost is so close to being found." I like the quote. Give me inspiration about being lost and being found.

In real life, some people tried to dominate and said that I was lost and they were in the true path. Some people told a lie, others told the truth. The situation made me confused to decide whether I do something right or wrong. Honestly, I had not heard God's voice, I had not seen God's face, but I believe in God. Some people killed or hurt others in the name of God. Sometimes, I think "to whom should I believe."

In the other hand, sometimes, it was difficult to decide something when we faced difficult options. Sometimes, I was not sure whether my girl friend was good life partner for me. Sometimes, I was not sure whether the job that I had chosen is the right career.

Hi, I do not give up. I am confident that I can do the best but sometimes I am not sure that some choice that I make is the best for me. Is it my own will, or God's will.

God give me freewill but I believe that God's Will is the best for me. In technical way, I will do the best. For my future, I plan and I am going to be better. However, for the unknown part of my life, I choose submission to God.

I am not a good man. Maybe, I am lost. Maybe, I cannot hear God's voice. But God will find me and guide me to His Will if I open my heart.

Friends,

I express my feeling in an Inspirational Very Short Story, a Fable Flash Fiction, titled "LOST SHEEP AND THE GOOD SHEPHERD"

Enjoy and read it!

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Jump Out of The Box | Authspot

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Sometimes, our bad experience makes us not confident. Some people gives bad label to us so it is difficult for us to grow. Bad suggestion and bad label put us into the tiny box of "I can't"

In this new year, new decade, you must decide to say "Yes, I can" and jump out of the box. To read the tips to take your self out of the box, click here

Marry Christmas

Christmas celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ, a saviour, a peace bearer. It celebrates the inspiration of peace and harmony. With spirit of christmas, the peace reborns within our heart and we can be the channel of the peace. Not only are we inspired but also inspiring others as well.

Divine Peace be unto you.

GBU
Deo Gratia
Salam
Rahayu

Tumpang: Exotic Way to Express Gratitude

Gratitude! Be grateful! Gratitude plays important role in your journey to success. Spiritually, you thank God for Thy gift/ grace. Psychologically, you learn to respect yourself and be happy to your life. And when we share our feeling of gratitude, we will make the joy doubled.

Be grateful! Express the gratitude! And share with others!

The traditional way has created symbols to express it. It remind us to be always grateful. Read my article about exotic way of traditional people to express gratitude by clicking here

My Articles About Self Empowerment

I'm interested in self-empowerment in life. I believe that many thing in our life is stated from something inside coz energy follows the mind. I have read some books such as The Secret, Alchemist, and Law of Attraction. They are really helpful.

In 2008, I start to write some articles related to self-empowerment in www.triond.com as follows:

My Relationship and The Secret


Meditation: It is still necessary?


Three to Achieve Your Goal


Affirmation for Better


Overcoming Nervousness in Public Speaking


Power of Gratitude: Give Thanks


In God We Trust


Spiritual Perspective in Art of Dating

Find Idea, Discover Treasures

Have you ever watched National Treasure: Books of Secret? The hero, Ben, said that what he needed to discover the treasure is “ Key Words”. You can see in the movie that one clue brings Ben to other clue.

To get the idea is like effort to discover the hidden treassure. One clue brings you to another; one key word may bring you to another key word and then you can get closer to heve idea.

It’s a kind of brain storming. Write down what ever comes to your mind related to something you want to discover. From your mind you can get some key words, you also need another references such as books, articles, the words you get from your experiences. Sometimes, ideas come to your mind when you are in chit-chat, taking a bath, riding motor cycle, so prepare small piece of paper to record them every time you get it.

Then, use that keywords, search any related information by using Google search engine at http://www.google.com or Yahoo at htttp://www.yahoo.com. You will get many readings, related to your intended theme/ topics. It's also point to ponder that organizations or people with certain characteristics/ interest/ belief, usually use certain keywords. For example, those who are interested in politics, usually use the work 'democracy'; those who are interested in religion use word “God¨; those who are interested in business, usually use the words: “passive income, investment.” From the readings related from your topic, you can get ideas, new keywords, and from new key word you can search in search engine the other related readings. It will enrich your idea.

You will get more and more information. The keywords will bring you to another keywords or clues, that can stimulate your mind to discover the idea.[]

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The Way of Patience at Work and Ninja Spirit

Patience is heart of flower, let it grow at work to win with others.


Sometimes we hears 'I hate my work', 'My working situation is getting worse", "Everyone blame me and scold me and make me a loser". Another says, "I was patient and have tried to be patient, but I cannot resist anymore with work situation" of "my patience is limited, and I won't be patient anymore."

The word patience and bad working situation remind me about something interesting me when my brother in Indonesia learned shodo (Japanese Caligraphy). It was the character of "Nin". This character is also related to the word "Ninja", "Ninpo" and "Ninjutsu". Ninja were really not assassins sure they had to do that occassionally but a true ninja was and is a person of endurance and perserverence."The first priority of the ninja was and is to win without fighting", according to Essence of Ninjutsu By: Masaakai Hatsumi.

The Japanese "Nin" character represents the ancient martial art of Ninjutsu and it's higher form of Ninpo, the Arts of the Ninja. The "Nin" symbol translates into Endurance, Perserverence, Patience In many people's image, Ninja (person who masters art of preserverence, and patience) is hero. So, are preserverence and patience heroic acts? You can decide by yourself by considering role of patience and preserverence in peace, harmony, and achiving success. We should change our mindset, stating that patience and perserverence are actions of weak person. Instead, patience and perserverence were possed by the persons who knows 'The Secret'.


The Japanese character for Nin consists of two parts or radicals. The upper radical is called yaiba which refers to the cutting edge of a blade. The lower radical can be read either as kokoro or shin, both of which mean heart. One, who consider patience weakness, translates "Nin"as "heart stabbed by blade", meaning to say "he saves anger". Ancient saying says, "Patience, or preserverence (Nin) is not heart stabbed by blade, but it is heart of flower, instead" So, to manifest patience, we should develop heart of flower. We should choose to develop happiness, joy, and gratitude, instead of fighting against hate, stress, anger.

At work, sometimes, we work under pressure. Many things, we should finish. Some people ( customer or colleague or our boss) scold us. The bad situation at work that we feel make us difficult to take breath. Sometimes, it also happen in our relationship and social life. Then, we try to be patient, but we translate patience as "heart stabbed by blade" or we just let bad situation happen and save the anger and sadness in our mind. The situation can be worse, we can get into more stress because we attract worse situation, worse work climate, worse relationship. We try to fight againts jealousy, anger, sadness in our heart, but they grow bigger and bigger because we think about them. It is law of attraction, according to "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne.

So what should we do, when in bad work situation? Remember 'Nin', 'the heart of flower', being patience means that you choose to feel joy and gratitude. Remember a happy moment, the beloved one who inspiring you, a momment when you are in love, a momment when achieving something. Visualize and imagine that you have achieved best situation (perhaps work performance achievement, happy momment, good relationship) and be grateful! Feel the joy, happiness, and grattitude and smile. Feel and the flower in your heart grow. That is patience. Spread it to all people.

The change within can attract better situation at work, in relationship, and in social life. You will be hero who posses way of patience and preserverence.

This article is posted in http://www.e-jobz.com , an online talent market by human resource, outsourcing, recruitment service consultant in Indonesia, and written by a copy writer for Askill Indonesia ( A-Skill ), Asian Skilled Resource, an Indonesian Manpower Supply Company for Overseas Project ( PJTKI ).

Javanese Aji Caka Script and Five Elements of Nature

Javanese alphabet by ancient mystical king, Aji Caka, consists 20 letters. In order, the letters was written in 4 lines by Aji Saka to commemorate his messengers.

Besides, they also have ancient teaching about human life.
Ha Na Ca Ra Ka means there were messengers. This line has philoshophical meaning that every human being is messenger of god. Every one has role for harmony when they were born.
In elemental nature philosophy, this line represents element of wind. Wind means direction to the goal. Everyone is created due to divine purpose.

Da ta sa wa la means the messengers met and discussion happened. This sentence mean that in our life we need to share and discuss. Our relationship is about networking with other.
This sentence represents element of water or flexibility. This element teach us to mantain harmonious relationship with others, that is why we need people skills for life. Flexibility and open mind are essential for learning.

Pa dha ja ya nya means both of messengers were fighting and both of them won. This sentence represents element of fire or desire or fighting spirit. In our life, we need to have fighting spirit to win. We should be enthusiasm in what we do.

Ma ga ba tha nga means both of messengers died. When we die, our body are burried and back to the earth. It represents element of earth.
It can allso mean 'memento mori'. We should remember that all human beings will die. In our life there is something to change, and there is something that we cannot change. We should have serenity in our action.

So, what is the fifth element in Javanese alphabet? The fifth element also represents fifth element of nature. The fifth element is not written because it is element of void or spirit, It is the divine mystery of god.



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SELF ESTEEM

Humanizing Human Beings, To Be Little Candles for Others! To empty mind with open mind!

The relationships we have with the world are largely determined by the relationships we have with ourselves. -- Greg Anderson

Self–esteem means that no opinion and no judgment are so vitally critical to your own growth and development as that which you hold of yourself. -- Denis Waitley

People become really quite remarkable when they start thinking that they can do things. When they believe in themselves they have the first secret of success. -- Norman Vincent Peale

The most influential person who will talk to you all day is you, so you should be very careful about what you say to you! -- Zig Ziglar

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SALESMANSHIP - CELEBRATE OPENING A RELATIONSHIP

By Purnomosidhi

"Don't celebrate closing a sale, celebrate opening a relationship." -- Patricia Fripp, Keynote Speaker, Speech Coach, Sales Trainer, Author

Dedicate yourself to build and maintain high quality relationship with your prospect and customer. When closing a sale, perhaps, you just sell your product or service once. However, when building good relationship, you create more opportunity for the sales. Relationship is the key in salesmanship. Selling is recomending an idea, manifested in product or service. People won't accept your recomendation if there is a bar between you and them. People won't buy your product nor use your service if they do not like you. If you win their heart, you will get their attention and they will open to your recomended idea.


Relationship is an asset. Even if it is not in the form of money, it is moral investment. When you build relationship, you build opportunity.

Daniel Carnagie, in his book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People", writes that everyone has desire to be considered as important person. Your customer, your prospect, and you have this desire, too. So, you should build good ability to respond your customers and prospects, consider them important, and make them feel that they are considered important.






However, in sales there are going to be times when you can't make everyone happy. Don't expect to and you won't be disappointed. Just do your best for each client in each situation as it arises. Then, learn from each situation how to do it better the next time.

Learning to build relationship is essential in salesmanship. Some best sellers books, recomended for you to develop high quality relationship, are, among others,"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Daniel Carnagie, "The Magic of Thinking Big", and "Personality Plus". You can also build your knowledge in salesmanship by reading articles written by Patricia Fripp, Keynote Speaker, Speech Coach, Sales Trainer, Author of www.fripp.com

Ghost Rider and Freewill to Make Decision

By Purnomosidhi

Ghost Rider is fantastic movie about the power of decision. It tells how decision in life can have effect in our life.

In order to save his dying father, young stunt cyclist, Johnny Blaze signed contract and sold his soul to Mephistopheles, a representative of darkness. Fear of loss is the path to darkness. Fear of loss and path of darkness also occurs in Star Wars episode III, when Anakin Skywalker was afraid to lose his wife and submitted his soul to Dark Side and then became Dart Vader. Johnny’s fear of loss became his ignorance because he sold his soul and gave the darkness an authority to make decision for his life.

Years later, Johnny’s path crossed again with Roxanne, his ex-girlfriend, and also with Mephistopheles, who offered to release Johnny’s soul if Johnny became the fabled, fiery Ghost Rider, a supernatural agent of vengeance and justice. Mephistopheles charged Johnny with defeating the despicable Blackheart, Mephistopheles’ nemesis and son, who planned to displace his father and created a new hell even more terrible than the old one.

Fortunately, there was still awareness inside. Johnny was aware of freewill and made decision to get second chance to change his life and make effort for redemption for his past ignorance. His effort created the second chance and he had courage to make decision and choice for his life and do not sell his freedom to other to make decision for his life.

If you do not make choice, the choice will make you. If you do not make decision, the other will make decision for you.

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Happy Feet: Lesson of Uniqueness

In animation movie "Happy Feet", every penguins in Antartic empire must be able to sing heartsong, but Mumble grew different. He was not good singer. His ability in singing was under average. However, he had unique ability in toe-tapping skill. His feet dance also created rythm of music, but his community was not ready to accept it. Singinng is expression of happiness, and Mumble also said "Dancing is also expression of happiness."

Even if his community was not ready to appreciate his uniqueness,fortunately, Mumble did not feel inferior and he was aware of his unique ability. He kept dancing, and his happy feet dance grew better and better. Sometimes in real life, negative perspective to the difference can shut up one's development and innovative idea. However, it is in ourown decision to decide to trust in our ability and keep moving, or give up. Realize our uniqueness, and develop it.Your uniqueness can inpire others.

Mumble kept dancing and introduce his unique skills to his friends. At the beginning only a few were interested to dance but Mumble showed his confidence to introduce Happy Feet dance. His confidence and enthusiasm made his dance performance become more interesting, and it interested more and more penguins to dance. His dance was expression of happiness and it encouraged others. Doing or performing something with confidence and enthusiasm can make the better performance and interest others.

'Be confident with your uniqueness' was what Mumble did for himself first before he saved his community from famine. He made decision for himself to investigate the source of famine, the source of problem to get solution. He did happy feet dance enthusiastically, and showed his dance to human beeings. Finally, he led the penguins in his community of penguins to perform happy feet dances, and it sent the message to the world to save environment in Antartic. Put on your oxygen mask then you can help others." The story in 'Happy Feet' inspire us to do something for ourselves before we do something for others. It is also relevant to the safety procedure for flight passengers: 'Put on your oxigen mask first, before you help the others.' You cannot help other, if you cannot help your self. You cannot save the weak person of you are weak. You cannot serve the poor, if you are poor. You cannot feed the hungry if you are hungry. Change begin within ourselves.[]

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